The Inspiring Life of Alfred George Fortunato

Alfred George Fortunato

September 6, 1931 - October 2, 2012

In Loving Remembrance 

of the Honorable Life of 

My Brother
My Best Friend

Alfred George Fortunato

  

Today our family gathered for a special memorial service to honor and pay tribute to my brother of eighty-one years, Alfred G. Fortunato.

My heart is too full to do justice to the memory of this day and to the thousands of thoughts that run through my mind about a very special human being who was my brother, my playmate through our childhood years, my hero as the Captain of our Erasmus Hall High School Baseball Team and respected for his deep compassion for others as early as in his adolescent years. Al was my most trusted and respected friend throughout our adult years and into our golden years right until the very end.

I know that Al's passing is deeply felt by many whose lives he touched during his life. He had a special bond and lifetime friendship with his teammates on the Brooklyn Dayton Baseball Club. He took special pleasure in his friends in the literary world of publishing, the authors, editors, researchers and writers who gave him a special sense of fulfillment in the world of literature. Al enjoyed time with wonderful friends and neighbors he felt privileged to know.

As for his family, Al leaves his wife and business partner, Susan Rabiner, with a legacy of his heart and mind and uniquely, his even-mindedness about all things.

Al's most significant legacy is his seven children he loved with all his heart. But his greatest joy was his grandchildren who always lifted his spirit with their presence and lifted his sense of pride in their many accomplishments.

Each of them knows the love he had for them. I have known how much they loved their grandpa and today, at Al's memorial tribute, his children and his grandchildren shared their reflective thoughts about him in a manner that brilliantly illuminated his memory accurately and from many perspectives.

My brother lived to find the truth of who and what we are as humans.  He was intelligent, an encyclopedia of knowledge, of history, the philosophies, literature and the arts.

He had great compassion for those whose lives were not filled with life's richness of spirit and well-being.

He never judged but rather listened to what everyone had to say, taking it all in and inquiring more deeply about those things that were outside of experience.

My loss is deep. It is not as though I have a choice in accepting his passing, but I do so because it is the natural order of things and because I have so much of him to hold onto, my lifetime of memories shared with Al, a lifetime of loving affection, the experience and exciting talks we had about life, its mysteries and its possibilities.

While I hold onto the sad times we shared and how we consoled each other in the loss of those who moved on before us, those memories are trumped by the thrill of remembering our celebrations, such as our family Christmases and other joyous times with our mom and dad, Mafalda and Jimmy, and our brother, Jimmy and our sister, Ann Marie.

While Al is and will always be sorely missed, the treasure of my memories of him will always be with me and I am blessed to have a special part of Al in his children, his nieces and nephews and their children and all who knew and cared for Al asI do. .

I know that if you could hear him today, he would tell you, first, that he loved you, and that he knows you will remember him and that you will carry the light of his life in your hearts and that you will carry your own torchlight high through your personal journey of life.

My personal prayer now is that Alfred G. Fortunato is in the warm embrace of the Lord, our God, and that he will rest in eternal peace.

I intend to share more about my brother because I believe his life is an illustrious and inspiring paradigm of the best that we can be.

Requiescat in pace. 

Photo Left: At a memorial mass at the Church of Saint Dominic in Southington, Connecticut, on Friday, November 2, 2012, Ephraim Richard 'Dick' Fortunato lights a candle in memory of the enlightened life of his brother Alfred George 'Al' Fortunato, who left us Tuesday, October 2, 2012.

Gov. Malloy of CT Alerts Public to Post Storm Sandy Scams

Reflections on the Days of Restoring Utilities and Infrastructure and Public Reaction

This week we have witnessed inestimable damage to infrastructure and property, the devastating loss of life and the peril of millions in the northeast region of the United States and beyond in the consequential aftermath of Storm Sandy.

While there's no magic switch to quickly fix everything that is not working and undo the damage done, the emergency response systems of the tri-state area of New Jersey-NewYork-Connecticut, has been laudable. Moreover, the response of the public in following the safety precautions under the direction of Governors Christie, Cuomo and Malloy have saved us untold additional havoc.

Most impressive and heart-warming are the efforts of neighbors helping neighbors, offering without being asked, shelter, hot meals, blankets, clothing, water and other needed help, along with the efforts of our fellow Americans traveling from distant states, such as,  notably, Wisconsin and Alabama.

While thinking about all of this, I received a brief email message this morning from Southington Town Manager, Garry Brumback, advising citizens to take notice of an announcement by Governor Daniel Malloy concerning the scam artists that prey on vulnerable victims of the storm for their own ill-begotten gain.

What a shameful contrast to the innate kindness and compassion of humanity are these parasitic perpetrators of evil who have the distinction of representing the worst that humans can be. Like the exploitation of looters in certain quarters they prey, without conscience, on the vulnerability of others.

                                                                                                                                 E. Richard Fortunato

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A Brief Message from Southington Town Manager, Garry Brumback.

While we were spared the most damaging aspects of Storm Sandy, some of our neighbors did have damage.  Please pass this on to all you know to help everyone avoid a scam. Please read this important message from Governor Malloy.  Thank you.

Garry Brumback,  Southington, CT  Town Manager  (860) 276-6200   www.southington.org

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Announcement of Connecticut Governor Daniel Malloy:

Be Aware of Disaster Assistance Scams,

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(HARTFORD, CT) – Governor Dannel P. Malloy, Attorney General George Jepsen and Department of Consumer Protection Commissioner William M. Rubenstein are warning Connecticut residents to be aware of potential scams in the coming days and weeks, especially ones in which scammers offer to help people
get disaster assistance from FEMA.
“Residents should always request photo identification and read the fine print if the person is at their front door, and if it’s over the phone, then people need to be even more careful,” Governor Malloy said. “Unfortunately, the damage caused by Storm Sandy has left many homeowners, renters, and business owners vulnerable to fraudulent offers of help.  To anyone who is caught trying to gouge or scam people in Connecticut in any way, I want to be clear – we will find you, and we will make sure you are prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.”

“Residents across the state continue to cope with power outages, property damage and other disruptions to normal living and, unfortunately, this often leads to attempts from unscrupulous individuals to take advantage,” Attorney General Jepsen said.  “Consumers should take necessary precautions to protect themselves, both personally and financially, and should immediately report any instance of potential fraud.”

“Consumers need to be extra vigilant to guard against being further victimized by fraudsters hoping to turn this disaster into undeserved profits,” Commissioner Rubenstein said.  “Know who you are dealing with, make sure they are properly licensed, get everything in writing and never pay in full before the job is done.  Consumers should always contact the Department of Consumer Protection to check out the credentials of contractors or to report suspected fraud.”

Here is one general tip intended to prevent fraud:

When contracting for home repairs, homeowners should always use licensed local contractors, and ask for and investigate their references.  Furthermore, be sure to ask for a written estimate from at least three contractors that includes labor and materials, read the fine print before signing a contract, and do not pay a contractor in-full in advance.

Here are a few tips to help prevent fraud specifically related to FEMA:

FEMA-contracted inspectors always call to schedule an appointment before visiting a home, always wear a photo ID and always know the applicant’s name and registration number. Inspectors never charge a fee for help.

Those seeking federal assistance should never reveal personal information if the person or organization making the request cannot provide identification showing the state, federal or voluntary agency serving the disaster.

Residents and businesses in Fairfield, New Haven, Middlesex and New London Counties who suffered damage as a result of Storm Sandy must register with FEMA by phone or online to access possible federal assistance.

To register by phone, residents can call 1-800-621-FEMA (3362).  The TTY line for people with speech or hearing disabilities is 1-800-462-7585.  The line is open from 7:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m., seven days per week.
To register online, applications may be completed atwww.disasterassistance.gov.  If residents have disaster assistance questions, they may call the FEMA Helpline at 1-800-621-3362.

David Bednarz - Office of Governor Dannel P. Malloy

David.Bednarz@ct.gov  - 860-524-7315 (office)  - 860-770-9792 (cell)