STEPS Forum: Making a Positive Difference in the Future: A Community Report -

Southington, CT,  February 17, 2012

A note for readers everywhere: The STEPS Forum on March 7, 2012 will celebrate the first two-years of suburban Connecticut community's collective efforts to make a positive difference in the future of generations to come in.

Yes, STEPS is on the move and it’s becoming exciting! Why? Because STEPS is the kind of dream good people have for the future of their community though in some ways they look at with measured pause and ask themselves: “Can we really do this? Can we rally the spirit and energy of our town and begin to bring about such a positive change in culture?”

With the genuine commitment of a cross section of all parts of the community, the answer is soon seen as: “Yes, we can, especially when we realize how powerful the results can ultimately be for our children, their children and for many future generations.

I had “overheard” a bit about STEPS three or four years ago when it was in its early stages of development. But, like most other people, my plate seemed to be full with other activities, in my case, a personal mission to track and assist by trying to create a greater awareness of the great work being done throughout our non-profit community largely by volunteers whose number is legion.

About a year ago, in my quest to discover more about the giving spirit of the people of our community, I started looking more closely at STEPS for a story, which resulted in a three part series. My interest in STEPS brought an invitation to me to serve on the STEPS Advisory Board where I was to discover a new universe of people and ideas in the mission known as Southington’s Town-wide Efforts to Promote Success. It didn’t take long for me to join members of a dozen different sectors of the community, in saying, “I’m in!”, a phrase given new meaning by Dr. Joe Erardi, Southington’s Superintendent of Schools when referring to a commitment to STEPS!

Some of the finest and most dedicated people I have known in my seventeen years in Southington are working every day to promote viable and lasting alternatives to risky behavior in young people, for example, drug and alcohol abuse, bullying, low self-esteem, and other forms of negative social interaction, all of which stand in the way of a way of life that grows physically, intellectually and emotionally healthy kids: tomorrow’s adult generation.

STEPS proactively develops healthy activities among kids, opening new doors to family, community and worthwhile social activities in an environment that is caring and nurturing.

STEPS is compelling, calling all townspeople to active participation in creating a rite of passage to positive cultural change as we move more swiftly into an ever-changing world.

That’s why I’m excited at the prospect of seeing more students, parents, grandparents, educators, healthcare providers, religious leaders and their congregations, our law and safety enforcement services, town leaders, the media, civic, service and non-profit groups, businesses and professionals getting involved with STEPS so that they, too, will join many of us in saying, “I’M IN!”

You’re invited to come to the STEPS Forum on Wednesday, March 7, 2012 at 7:00 pm at the Aqua Turf, where you’ll hear and see the results of the second round of surveys and much more about just how STEPS is making a difference in our community, one kid at a time. Admission is free and complimentary refreshments will be served, courtesy of the Calvanese Foundation.

People of Southington: Don’t wait. RSVP at ForumSTEPS@gmail.com to reserve your seat today!

Youth groups help feed the local hungry to mark Souper Bowl of Caring

Originally published in the Southington Citizen.

Many must be thinking of the close-to-home match up of the New England Patriots and the New York Giants in Super Bowl XLVII on February 5th. Well, there’s even more excitement, especially when our young people are so often the energizers behind charitable and compassionate movements like the Souper Bowl of Caring which utilizes Super Bowl weekend in America to mobilize teens to fight hunger and poverty in their local communities. The vision is to transform Super Bowl weekend into America's largest youth-led weekend of giving and serving. Monetary and food donations collected during the week leading up to Super Bowl Sunday are given directly by each group to local charities chosen by the group.

In past years, going back fifteen years, the teens of six Southington churches have each organized a campaign to collect donations within their congregations. Collectively they have raised $22,981.84, 100% of which has gone to Bread for Life and Southington Community Services, along with several thousand food items.

Using Music and the Arts To Promote Human Understanding

Southington 16th Annual MLK Celebration: Message pairs music and using personal talents to promote understanding.

Originally published in the Southington Citzen January 20, 2012.

A frigid Sunday, January 15, 2012 didn’t deter a large and brave audience from attending the 16th Annual Martin Luther King Jr. Community Celebration at First Baptist Church in Southington. Cheryl Hilton-Campbell, event M.C., gently led the program. “Living Martin King, Jr.’s Legacy in the 21st Century:. The event opened with a cordial welcome and invocation by Rev. Jerrie Shepard Matney, pastor of the hosting church, included musical selections of the youth choral group known as Spirit Joy which under the leadership of Sr. Marie Roccapiore, performed uplifting music of God, country and hope for humanity. Dr. Aaron A. Flagg, Dean of the Hartt School was guest speaker. In his remarks, he suggested that “we reflect on three qualities Dr. King lived which impacted his effectiveness in leading: A passion for people and their potential, courage and moral leadership and great knowledge and intellectual integrity.”

Combining his extensive background in music at the higher education level as well as his intertwined professional career as an accomplished trumpet player, Flagg offered some practical thoughts on “how the arts can encourage and assist us living them ourselves.” The speaker’s message was one for the present and the future based on the heritage of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s work and lifetime commitment to all men living together in peace, harmony and love of one another, free of prejudice and hatred based on diversity of color, creed, race, ethnic origins and other differences.

Growing Healthy Kids: Taking on Drug Abuse

Published in the Southngton Citizen January 13, 2012
The problem of drug abuse in the United States may not be news but there are some startling pieces of reality that many not know. For example, the alarmingly higher rates of prescription drug abuse in the U.S. than those using cocaine, hallucinogens and heroin combined, according to a 2009 National Survey on Drug Use and Health.

In conversation with Aisha S. Hamid, Director, Substance Abuse Action Council, a division of CMHA (Connecticut Mental Health Affiliates), our eyes were opened to additional well-documented facts: One in ten teens has abused cough medication, 1 in 5 has abused prescription drugs and that every day, 2,700 teens experiment with prescription medicine to get high for the first time. Teens somehow believe that abuse of prescription and over-the-counter drugs is safer than street drugs. The source: 70% of those who do so admit to acquiring them from family and friends.

A Video Preserving the 10th Anniversary Memorial of September 11, 2001

Seventy local organizations and many thousands of people who live or work in Southington, CT helped make the tenth anniversary memorial of 9-11-2001 an event that made history in its remembrance of the nearly 3,000 who perished in those attacks on America.

To thank the people of Southington for their part in the town-wide (indeed, nation-wide) efforts to remember that ominous day in history, the organizing committee has produced a moving twelve-minute video of the events surrounding the memorial service and the thousands of acts of kindness, charity, prayer and compassion dedicated to the victims of 9/11/01.

The dramatically moving film will be presented at the Calendar House Senior Center at 388 Pleasant Street in Southington on Thursday, January 19, 2012 at 1:00 pm.  All are welcome to attend.

Participating organizations may pick up a reserved complimentary copy of the DVD at the Southington Publlic Library so that they may show the video to the members of their clubs, congregations, organizations, service groups or employees.

Individuals may also view the video by borrowing a copy of the DVD at the Library. 

For more information follow the link to New Video of 10th Anniversary Memorial of 9-11-2001.

The Southington 9/11 Committee wishes to publicly thank the Calvanese Foundation for its generosity in funding the cost of production of the memorial DVD.

Firing an exceutive employee of tenure because of performance

Here we go again: The search for the fine line between compassion and objective managerial decision making.

Firing employees of long tenure can raise public attention, especially in the discharge of a municipal department head in a town where everybody knows everybody. The process can excite emotions, passions and controversy, particular among family and friends, on the one hand, with strongly different positions of those with priority interests in the town's ability to run efficient operations within the vision and direction of its leadership., particularly in lean times such as these. It does happen in human relations that one or more members of a management team cannot adapt to a new vision, direction and/or management style. Each case presents different personalities and circumstances. Having all the facts helps objectivity. The following report attempts to provide information. Comments are invited, as always.


Published in the Southington Citizen 13 January 2012


Town fires longtime employee based on job performance

Last weekend’s announcement that Southington’s Town Engineer/Director of Public Works, Anthony Tranquillo, is no longer in the town’s employ, effective Friday, January 6, 2012, took most of Southington by surprise.

Details of the circumstances surrounding the move by Town Manager, Garry Brumback, were initially withheld in keeping with the town’s traditional policy of maintaining privacy regarding personnel matters.

However, on Monday, January 9th, further information about Tranquillo’s termination was released by Brumback in an e-communication response to an FOIA (Freedom of Information Act) request of a member of the media. Brumback stated he had met several times over the past 11 months to discuss standards of service and expectations of Tranquillo in the management of his department. Brumback stated he formally met with Tranquillo and Town Attorney, Mark Sciota, on Aug 4th to express his concern that Tranquillo was making no progress toward meeting expectations, outlining those areas that needed significant improvement.

Brumback said he also met with Tranquillo and the Town Attorney on December 16th and that Tranquillo agreed that significant progress had not been made and that ”he understood my position. Mark (Sciota) and I felt as though he (Tranquillo), understood and agreed to retire. The only unanswered question was the date”, Brumback said, adding “These counseling sessions have not resulted in any appreciable improvement and therefore I feel compelled to make a change.”

Brumback said that the position of the Director of Public Works was designed as a critical component of the management team and thus must be held by an individual who both understands and supports the goals of the entire organization. “I don’t believe that Tony is that individual”, Brumback said, “but it was my goal to make this change and allow Tony to retire on his terms but he has decided that he would rather not retire for several more years. This is an option I cannot support and still meet the expectations of the (Town) Council and the community.”

In a letter of termination to Tranquillo, dated Jan. 4, 2012, Brumback states: “You will be entitled to your accrued vacation and sick leave in accordance with our current policies and procedures. You are eligible to retire and we will support that effort should you decide to pursue that option.”

In attempting to contact Mr. Tranquillo at his home, a member of the family stated that he is away and has left instructions to callers to contact his attorney, Gregg Adler, in Hartford. Adler told us that he has been retained by Tranquillo to explore the situation and make an assessment for Tranquillo as to his (legal) options. Adler stated that Tranquillo has been employed by the town for thirty-nine years, that he strongly disagrees with the town manager’s explanation and that he regards the statements concerning their meetings to be inaccurate.

We asked Brumback what’s next for the town in its continuing operations. Brumback pointed out that about five years ago, the Department of Public Works was created to encompass the offices of the Town Engineer, Superintendent of Highways and Parks and Water Pollution Control (sewers). Brumback plans to re-evaluate that decision to consolidate these departments pending his review as to whether that move has actually achieved its intended goal.

Immediate steps have been to appoint Assistant Town Engineer, Jim Grappone, to the interim position formerly held by Tranquillo, with Steve Wlodkowski as Superintendent of Highways & Parks and John DeGioia as Superintendent of Water Pollution Control (Sewers). Brumback indicated that he regards these three key officials with respect and confidence. As for a time table regarding the status of Public Works, he hopes to have a determination by the end of this fiscal year (June 2012). Brumback conjectured that the three departments could be direct reports to the Town Manager with greater efficiency while also eliminating the position of Public Works Director. Brumback added that efficiency in providing quality services as required by the community and the upgrading of the town’s infrastructure remain top priorities.

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